angel_kel

I am a submissive and have been in the BDSM lifestyle since 2000. I have been married to a sadist since June 2006 and am NOT looking to change that. We are extremely different from each other in our lifestyle interests and self-expression; hence why we have been a polyamorous couple in an open marriage since March 2009.

My experiences range quite a bit because I am almost always willing to try new things. I am very much into the mental stimulation and mental control that comes from belonging to another, what kind of a D/s or M/s relationship can you really have without this...I feel it is a key element to this type of relationship being successful for me!

If you want to know more just ask. Being flogged is one of my absolute favorite things. But the most important thing to learn about me is that all of the toys mean nothing, if there isn't a power exchange present in the dynamic. The connection, the trust and the vulnerability is what I crave. Power exchange is about way more than just making me submit physically. I need to feel the exchange of energy where I can just exist.

I enjoy the raw body against body exchange, where I have no choice but to feel the strong dominant presence. While I do have a definite need for pain at times, I am by no means just into pain. I also very much enjoy the sensual/touchy side of play. I like the gentle moments amongst the roughing me up times.

I can be stubborn, feisty, witty, and playful with a hint of brat, yet extremely lovable and obedient. I need someone with a firm hand to reign me in and put me in my place. Inside of me rests plenty of untapped desire and need, and I ache for it to be released. However in saying that, I respond well to the gentle yet strong, patient dominant personality, not the aggressive/mean type. I need a dominant partner who has a stronger personality than my own. ;-) But don’t mistake any of the above mentioned things for a lack of submission. Submitting can be hard sometimes, but its reward is oh so amazing and a breath of fresh air.

I have an extremely shy side that is often hidden behind a smile. I have an extremely hard time asking for things and approaching someone for play is something I still have serious issues doing. Because of this shyness, I tend to respond best to those who are secure in their wants, needs, knowledge and skills. A close friend recently told me, “You're something like a computer I have to hack. I'll try something and ‘Access denied’ will pop up.” Another friend compared me to a puzzle. This is not a lack of interest in you or a type of play; if that is the case you will know. I’m just more in-depth than a list of kinks and only those that show me they’re trustworthy through WORDS AND ACTIONS are able to see that fully.

Honesty is a must have for me!!! If you want to play games, please don't waste my time. All relationships should be built on trust, whether it be vanilla or lifestyle.

I do have yahoo messenger for ease of chatting. However, I am in no way looking for cyber sex, so if you are please move on. Nor am I looking for a long distance relationship, with no physical contact and touch.